Thursday, March 10, 2011

Why so stuck-up?

Why are you loosing yourself in the crowd? Why do you crave for anonymity?
Are looks the only thing that matter?
Don't you respect your identity as an individual?
In the past few days, have come across so many blogs, which seem to cry out for serious help. Please love yourself for what you are, You might have numerous faults, so do I. But there is nothing that can't be overcome. You must be having something, that's better than so many else. Do recognize it and respect it. Remember, loosing weight and wearing the best of clothes are not the only thing that matter. All of you would have someone to love and respect you for your individuality. Rather strive to make yourself an amazing person. Search for the drive, the ambition that would make you independent and strong. Don't loose yourself, please.

13 comments:

Nikita said...

Meher,
U said it all....what I was yearning to hear...

WarmSunshine said...

You so said it girl!!! Thumbs up to girl power!!

Priyanka Banerjee said...

Wow, you make SO much sense :')

♥ Duchess ♥ said...

goes to mos of the girls

Sourav said...

"Identity is theft of the self"

Read this somewhere, have started believing too off late!

Blasphemous Aesthete said...

I don't wanna change the world
I just wanna leave it colder
Light the fuse and burn it up
Take the path that leads to nowhere

I will not bow!


Sometimes I feel like that this whole blogger world follows a trend, unanimously... yet sometimes this place looks like a happy place to be in.

Nice read.

Cheers,
Blasphemous Aesthete

Ruhani said...

I absolutely loved this post! So honest and straightforward! It's always better to be absolutely ridiculous than to be someone you're not! :)

aakash said...

I was infact thinking something similar walking back to hostel yesterday.
It's like there is a race wherein everyone is competing without knowing any reason to do so. And then, many just give up mid-way.
I guess, it's just great that we all have our spots, that small volume which is all ours and the right to keep stumbling over each other.
I love the blog world!
aJ

The Many Colours of Happiness said...

This is amazing, and exactly what i needed to read. What a pick-me-up!!
Individuality is the best :)

Splurgerina said...

Meher Meher Meher...this is why I love you...even when I'm super busy your posts make me want to stop what I'm doing and comment..your posts are always thought provoking, brutally honest, and I leave with a smile!! I agree with everything you have to say here...Also, I have come across so many blogs where people put up such a facade and try to show themselves as idealistic and the epitome of perfection in everything that they do...umm...really? Why so afraid of just being yourself...even if it's fucked up..at least it makes you genuine. One of the reasons I keep coming back to your blog is because you're not scared to truly say what you feel...even if that makes you sound cynical or imperfect!

Sorry about the long comment..what did I say about your posts being thought provoking ;)

Meher said...

@nikita the telepathy! =)

@WarmSunshine thank you.

@PRiyanka Banerjee =)

@Duchess it does. =)

@Sourav so true.

@BA Im not sure the whole of it, but in a way, yes.

Meher said...

@Ruhani so truly said.

@Aakash Very well put. The volume each one of us occupies is definitely important.

@Kaylia It sure is.

@Splurgerina I'd rather reply to your comment on your blog. :')

The Blog Writer said...

Someone needed to say it. :)